So im new to this, but I am FASCINATED with spell work, spelled candles/oils, etc., you name it! I have a boyfriend, and we've been together for a long time. My whole best friend! There's been some miscommunication within our relationship lately, which leads to arguments, which also leads to us being off & on. I've done a "get ex lover back" ritual on him, by someone else, and also the Mesmerize ritual from Sara & Lena, on him so far, but because he's so stubborn, I know I have to layer work on him. I've wanted to try Lena's candles out for the longest, but since im a newbie, I don't have an altar or offerings for me to burn them. Is it mandatory for me to have offerings or can I just burn them without?